It’s been a long time since I’ve been on a first date but I do remember how nervous I would get before each one. Not having enough to talk about was always at the top of my list for items to be nervous about. What if we didn’t have anything in common? What if there are awkward silences? What if my mind went blank and I couldn’t think of anything to say? Most of the dates usually went well…not that they were a perfect match for me but the awkwardness was kept to a minimum! If running out of things to talk about makes you nervous as well, you’re going to want to review this list.

Your conversation starters for a first date don’t have to be deep questions – try to keep things light and you may be surprised at what you have in common.

Conversation Starters for a First Date:

• Does he have any hobbies? You may discover that you share a similar interest or perhaps you have knowledge about something that is of interest to him.

• Where did he grow up? If you both grew up in the same city, perhaps you know someone who used to live in his area that he may know as well. If he grew up in a different city, is it a place that you’ve ever visited?

• Does he have a favorite sport or a favorite sports team? Have you ever attended one of these sporting events? Have you ever tried this sport? Do you have a sibling that also plays this sport?

• Does he like to travel? If so, you could ask him about the most memorable trip he’s ever been on. Where have you traveled that you’d like to tell him about? Where would he like to travel in the future? If you share a love for travel, this could lead to many conversations starters for a first date.

• Does he have a favorite movie? Have you seen this movie as well? If so, what did you think about it? Have you seen something similar that you can recommend to him?

• Does he have a favorite singer or musical group? Have you ever seen this person in concert? Do you enjoy any of this singer’s songs?

• What is the best concert he’s ever attended? Tell him about the best concert you’ve ever attended or perhaps who you’d love to see in concert. If you share similar tastes in music, this could lead to many more conversation starters for a first date.

• What is his favorite restaurant in the city? Have you ever tried this place before? If you have a second date, perhaps you could suggest this restaurant.

• What was his first job? Do you know anyone that used to work there?

• What is his dream job? Do you know anyone that currently works in that field?

• What is the most daring adventure he has ever tried? Have you ever tried anything like bungee jumping or sky diving? Sharing stories about some of your adventures are great conversation starters for a first date.

• Does he stay in contact with any of his childhood friends? Tell him about why you’re so glad to have some of your closest friends.

• Does his family live close by? Does yours? You can share a little bit of information about each of your families.

• Does he have any pets? How long has he had these pets? Do you have any pets? Perhaps you had a similar family pet growing up.

Your conversations starters for a first date should never include anything too personal like the history of past relationships. Nothing will scare a date off faster than discussing your failed relationships of the past! Also, try to avoid getting into deep details like what you want in a partner. A first date is meant to be filled with light conversation to get to know each other better and to see if this is someone you’d like to spend more time with.

While on your date, try to remember that he’s probably nervous too. Just try to relax and enjoy getting to know each other better. Even if there isn’t a romantic spark, you could be making a new friend.

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When is the last time you were on a first date?

There are so many creative date ideas out there but nothing is more special than a personalized date for you and your partner. This idea for taking a drive down lover’s lane is easily customizable to include many of the special memories from your relationship. All you’ll need for this date are some creative ideas and your vehicle.

The goal of this creative date is to drive to some of the areas that you’ve shared special moments with your spouse and talk about your memories. You probably both remember different parts about your special moments – you could even have a fun quiz game with each other! Your creative date ideas don’t have to be identical to the original special moment, you can simply visit the locations of the dates and talk about special memories.

For those of you who have moved to a new city, you can still put this date together with a little bit of creativity. For example, did you get engaged in a park in a different city? You can visit a new park while trying to recreate the special moment or talk about your memories of this special event.

Taking a Drive Down Lover’s Lane – Creative Date Ideas:

• Where did you first meet? Was it at a coffee house? You can go to the coffee house and enjoy some time together talking about good memories.
• Where did you go for your first date? Is it a restaurant that you can visit again? Was it to a movie in a theatre you could go to?
• Where did you share your first kiss? You could visit this location again and try to recreate the memory!
• Where did you get engaged? Did he plan something special for you at home? You could surprise him by creating your own special version of this at home.
• Where did you get married? You could visit this location and talk about all the special memories you have from your big day.
• Where were you when you went into labor with your first child? Where did you give birth? Perhaps you could visit the hospital where you gave birth and bring along a donation to their labor & delivery unit.

While out for your drive around the city, you could pack a special picnic in the back of your vehicle to enjoy while watching the sunset.

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Long distance dating can be difficult. When my husband and I first starting dating in 2005, we had to live in separate cities for the first several months as I had a job up north and he was finishing school in the south. I’d often send him long distance dating care packages just to let him know I was thinking of him. I remember one year I sent him a mini Christmas tree filled with ornaments that reminded me of him. We still have these ornaments and we put them on our Christmas tree every year.

The idea for using a craft storage box came from this post by Angie over at Echoes of Laughter in her cute idea for a Valentine’s Day treat for a teacher.

To make this care package, you’ll start with a small craft storage box from your local dollar store. What’s great about these storage containers is that the separators inside the box are removable so you can move them around to fit your needs.

To make this idea even more cute, add a piece of scrapbook paper (with permanent double-sided tape) to the front along with a sweet message and your special someone’s name. Now you get to fill the box with treats that remind you of your special someone.

Long Distance Dating Care Packages Ideas:

• chocolates
• love notes
• chocolate kisses
• hot lips candies
• favorite snacks
• long distance phone card
• pen, paper and a stamped and addressed envelope so he can write you a love letter back
• a restaurant gift card so you can have a Skype date while enjoying takeout food
• small candle and a personalized napkin for him to use during your Skype dinner date (visit Society Shirts for cute & inexpensive personalized iron-ons perfect for napkins)

Have you ever sent long distance dating care packages? If so, what did you include?

Do you want to plan the perfect date but you’re running low on ideas? Here are some questions you can use to help you brainstorm a long list of perfect date ideas! When brainstorming, write down every idea even if it seems too big, too small or too silly. One big idea could turn into ideas for a few smaller dates. Let your creativity run wild and you’re sure to come up with some great ideas.

Questions to Consider When Brainstorming Perfect Date Ideas:

What are her hobbies? If it’s art, is there an art museum you could go to? How about an art studio that you could try together? A romantic and fun idea would be to create a piece of art together to display in your home.

What is his favorite sports team? Does this team play in your city? If so, you could attend a game together. If not, you could set up your own mini game at home with the sport colors, logo and a concession stand. As an example, see this hockey date night I planned for my husband.

Is there a place that she wants to travel to? If Hawaii is on her list of places to visit, plan a special luau at home with decor and special Hawaiian themed meals.

Is there an adventure that he’d like to try? Perhaps rock climbing or white water rafting are on his wish list of adventures. You could try to find a place in or around your city that offers these experiences.

Looking for more fun & original date ideas? Check out these fun posts:

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Do you have any perfect date ideas to share here to give the rest of us inspiration? What is the best date you’ve ever been on?